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Happy Friday From Queen Nutella Queen of the soundbites. I'm back. You missed me. I know you did. I know you did. Okay. I just got a question Are you a people pleaser? How do y'all feel about people pleasers? Do you feel like you should be able to have a healthy dose of? No No, get somebody else to do it But within your vocabulary, I just want to know I hope everybody is having a great start to their day It's Friday It's motherfucking Friday. This is how we do it
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I used to be a people loser but yeah no I do too much in the day to be doing that. You either with me or you ain't.
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Thank you, Ishana, for participating. You're just getting up, girl. You fell over it already, but thank you.
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Actually, I used to be a people pleaser for most of my life. I had to learn the hard way that that is not the way to go. And since then I have moved away from it and I am not a people pleaser anymore and I never will be ever again.
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Now, my thoughts on people pleasers is, since I know it from a people pleaser perspective, it's usually just insecure people. They are scared that they might hurt the individuals, they are scared they might come off weird, etc, etc.
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But the fact of the matter that I learned is nobody should be a people pleaser. It's great and admirable that you want to do right by people, but you also have to take care of yourself because you're also a person.
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Thank you Amanda. Your thread is a great response. All three responses which is great. So thank you again for participating and I'm glad that you are no longer a people pleaser if that is what helps you.
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I think people pleasing is in all our nature. We just choose who we choose to be people pleases to and who we don't in my opinion. But we're all here to please each other in many ways including ourselves.
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Absolutely, to an extent we all want to please, we want to make sure our loved ones are pleased and everything like that. So people pleasing meaning at the expense of yourself. How far do you go with your people pleasing?
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I definitely used to be and I'm actively working on it and it used to drain a lot of my energy
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And I hope that you are successful at working at it, Tatiana. There's nothing wrong with doing things for people and being a giver, but you know, not at your own expense, darling. You know, make sure that you are okay first.
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Happy Friday. I would rather be in a company with a people pleaser or no, because I used to be one of those persons.
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Well, I'm glad that you're not one of those people anymore and thank you for participating a bar. I think that's how that's pronounced. Thank you for participating, love.
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I'm definitely a people pleaser and I'm trying to stop.
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Uh, Revet, thank you for participating, darling. What kind of things do you do that people please? Is it at your own expense? Like, do you do things that you typically would not do just to please someone else?
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If it benefits me, yes.
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Ha ha ha ha! Evil eyes, that ain't people pleasing them. Ha ha! Usually people pleasing them is really, it's not like it's more at the expense of you, more so than the benefit of you. You're just a manipulator.
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In general, no. Specifically, only trying to please the people that I care about and that are dear to my heart. Outside of that, nope, absolutely not. Next!
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I'll tell you like I've been telling everybody else, as long as it's not at the expense of yourself and what you like and that you're not up here doing things that you would not normally do just because of someone else whether you love them or not.
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my mouth to be liking to please people
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Oh my goodness, Kyle. Oh, okay. This is a family. This is a family sound ****, sir.
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No. The only thing I'm worried about pleasing is my dick.
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