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Happy Friday From Queen Nutella Queen of the soundbites. I'm back. You missed me. I know you did. I know you did. Okay. I just got a question Are you a people pleaser? How do y'all feel about people pleasers? Do you feel like you should be able to have a healthy dose of? No No, get somebody else to do it But within your vocabulary, I just want to know I hope everybody is having a great start to their day It's Friday It's motherfucking Friday. This is how we do it
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I'm definitely not a people pleaser and I'm also a big fan of setting boundaries. And I've had people who had a problem with that, but I don't give a fuck.
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Period Christina period gotta set those boundaries and sometimes people like to Habitual line-step as I think is with Charlie Murphy Called it Then you have to ask them people out. Yeah
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I don't feel like I'm a people pleaser. Because sometimes, I mean, whatever my opinion is going to be, it's going to be. Whether people like it or not, it is what it is. But I do love, you know, bringing light to people. But definitely not a people pleaser.
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Say no to people pleasing. Thank you for participating love as always. You know I love it when y'all Show your girl love on the soundbites. Happy Friday.
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Possibility I might be an ass-biter When I'm not an ass-kisser No, no, no No, no
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My answer to this is a big fat no. No, I don't please people, but I respect them. This is a good question for you to ask. Are you a people pleaser?
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Rada da da! Oh honey, I think my reputation speaks for itself. I am absolutely not a people pleaser. I think so many more people would like me if I were. But I don't be giving a fuck! But thank you!
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Truly a Queen's response. Thank you Queen. Thank you.
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I have definitely been a people pleaser in the past but if you don't respect me I don't have the time and energy for it it's a big fat no for me no less love list I can go
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What kinds of things in the past, Scruffy, caused you to be a people pleaser? Do you think? Like what do you think about that? Just a question, just want to know and thank you for participating as always.
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I think I've always liked being part of a team or something bigger than myself. So, uh, doing what people asked of me was a certain way to get there until it ran me rampant and then... Yeah, couldn't do that shit anymore.
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It is officially Friday, woof! And I see you back with another one. Okay, are you a people pleaser? No, it's giving very much so. You're an ass kisser if you're a people pleaser, and G is not that.
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That's what the fuck I'm talking about sissy. Call it what it is. Hell nah ain't no motherfucking ass kisser. Cause that's exactly what a people pleaser is, a motherfucking ass kisser. And we don't do that over this way. Happy Friday sissy. I'm trying to get my booty rubbed on.
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There's one ass I kiss but you know she ain't give me no time a day yeah facts one
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I am definitely a people pleaser, but I think there's a difference between a people pleaser and a doormat, and I'm definitely not a doormat. I will set a boundary if I feel like it's going too far.
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Hi Lily! Happy Friday love! And yes, boundaries are important. You're going to be a people pleaser, which I don't necessarily agree with because you're too great to do that, but okay. Make sure you have those boundaries in place love.
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Hey Queen Donatella, I am absolutely not a people pleaser, but I do like to please people, if that makes sense. Like, I'm not going to please people just to make them happy, but like I enjoy being around people and caring for who I care about.
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Hey Sarah! Yes girl that makes absolute sense. As a nurse and a caregiver to my special needs child I definitely understand what it means like be of service and that definitely brings me joy right so I understand.
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By the way, I also just followed you on Instagram just to see your work and support where I can. I think you're awesome from the sound bites and you participate, you ask great questions and give great answers.
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Hmm am I a people pleaser? I don't think I'm a people pleaser. I am an impact though, so I do like to see people happy And like if you cry, I'm a fucking cry even whether you're my friend or not, you know, so I do like to create a
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Oh baby these 15 seconds just ain't gonna do. But no I do like to create environments where people are comfortable but just not at my own comfortabilities experience. So I think a people pleaser wants to make everybody else happy and negate.
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and negate themselves. So I'm definitely not that. And I also, we was having a conversation yesterday about being nice and rather you have to take out telling the truth. I believe you can tell the truth in a nice way.
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So I don't think that being nice makes you a people pleaser. And even when people kind of get offended with what a nice person says, because they're so shocked that a nice motherfucker said it to them. For me, it's like, you know, I said what I said. I'm sorry that you feel that way, but I-
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Like I'm sorry that it made you feel that way but I'm coming from a place of truth and my opinion ain't gonna change unless you have a very logical way to change it. So I'm sorry if you feel the way you feel but I said what I said.
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Girlfriend said I'm gonna get my minute. I'm used to a minute on stereo. So I'm gonna make sure that I definitely get my minutes worth Check yourself. I can't with you Thank you for participating in the sound **** mail
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You know what? Within a realist... I like to make people laugh. If that's a gift I can give anybody I try to do that. Sometimes people please just get annoying like, dude I don't need anything, get away from me.
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As long as you're not doing it at the expense of yourself, and I think that that's mainly what people pleasers do, is they negate however they feel about anything just to please somebody else, and that's a no-no.
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Thanks for the happy greeting and I would say you do have to learn how to say no.
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Thank you Edward, thank you for the response. And yes, I agree, you definitely have to know how to say no. Otherwise people will take advantage. They will definitely step all over you if you let them.
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