When you want to talk versus when your partner doesn't want to talk in an argument, how do you deal with that? that a lot of people force the other person to say something, force them to react or gaslight them and make them feel crazy for what they're asking or thinking what do you do?

I used to try to force because I don't like to leave things just hanging in the air because a lot of times they don't end up getting resolved. but now I'm just like okay because you want the message you want it to be a productive conversation

No you gotta give them gotta give them time cause then that force is gonna give you something like you ain't gonna like being on like a deer but that's what you force an out show me thing already

I'm the kind of girl that wants to talk things right away instead he rather just talk maybe the day after and it's frustrating to me because

I had to learn my partner, well my ex-partner, and had to learn that he'll come around and allowed for him to actually just walk away and not be mad about it.

I like to talk about things like when stuff happens I feel like the girl that said that before because I feel like things that are left unsaid they don't get resolved or whatever and it just leaves a bad light feeling I don't

I mean I get it if the person doesn't wanna talk but I mean every single time I don't know it's just a bit much

Both parties need to take time to figure out what they're feeling, why they're feeling it, and find the right words to say because impulsively when you're angry, people say the wrong things, people mean the wrong things, just take a seat, think about it.

Duh duh duh duh duh duh, frightened to kill yourself.

Hi I just cried ago