What is a respectable way of breaking up? Like, is text message too, too rude? Um, but should you be setting up a date to break up with somebody? Like, where's the median, what is appropriate and what isn't?

I think it depends on the break up like are we breaking up because it got bad or we breaking up because we just don't vibe because if we bring up in his bed I'll send you a text message fuck you I'm out of here but if we breaking up just cause we don't vibe together I could call you and tell you that