Well this happened a while ago but I got a match with me on hand you know I excepted the match then I noticed a couple minutes later at the excepting the match I got a follow request from him on Instagram because my account is private for a reference I do not put none of my socials in my dating apps because I don't want like random guys like contacting me so that being said I feel like it was weird and when other people other people were like oh well it's pretty easy to like Like find someone on social media especially if you guys go to the same school and I'm like OK that's cool but I did not say I wanted to talk to him off the app like usually you talk to someone for a couple days max two weeks then you guys be like OK like what do you wanna exchange like social the numbers you don't take it upon yourself to just find them you know if that makes sense

And when I thought about my mom not tripping because if the roles were reversed and I match with a guy and then I took it upon myself to find his socials and whatever he would think like I'm a weirdo or a stocker