Okay, speaking of polyamorous situations, I want to know if you know what a throttle is. And if you don't, basically it means that three people are in the relationship. So things can get very interesting. They do say three is a crowd. I personally have never been in a throttle. I don't think I ever will be, but I mean if someone's in it, I'm not gonna judge them for it. You know, it's their life choice. But yeah, I actually don't think I know anyone that is in one. and if they are they're not open about it anywhere but yeah I would love to know your thoughts about this.