Do you think love languages matter in a relationship?

Yes, but I don't think it should be taken too seriously. It should be more of a guidance system than taking it literal. So just take it with a grain of salt.

Love languages are so important to me that much that at the beginning of every relationship I have, I try to figure it out or talk to the person and find out what is the love

what it's the love language that they do like, let's say it's affirmation words, and then I like to do that as well so the people, the guy is going to feel loved, you know?

But on the other hand, if I do not like to say affirmation words all the time and I don't do it, then the guy is going to feel like, oh, she doesn't love me, I'm not good for her, and it's not the case, it's just come to an agreement and know what the other person...