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I saw a post the other day of a couple that explained why they went to couples therapy before getting married. And they explained that they didn't have any specific issues or problems that they needed to solve but they just wanted to get to know each other on a deeper level. Now some of the comments were pretty negative and kind of disliking the idea of going to therapy because if your relationship is happy and healthy enough to want to get married then why would you need therapy? Now my question is what are you guys's opinion on this? Do you think that going to couples therapy before getting married could be beneficial and good or do you think it's That's a bad idea.
This is a really good question. I actually feel like what that couple did was what they felt was best and I think oftentimes people, they base their own opinions on other people and they feel like, oh, well, my opinion's right and it's an opinion.
I feel like, you know, to each its own, if you feel like, you know, you can benefit off therapy by all means definitely do it. I don't see an issue with going myself, you know, but if you feel like, yeah, you're already in a good place then don't.
I agree with what they said I think it's so important to delve deep and it may even open up areas that they've never thought about before yes you may be happy but there's latest human beings
I think that in any situation, therapy can be beneficial. Now, both people have to be invested and believe in that idea. that idea, if you go in with one person thinking it's not going to work, it probably won't. if both think it can help. Yeah, investing in it's not a bad thing.
I reckon it would very much depend on how long you've been together. I think any kind of therapy is never necessarily a bad thing or a necessary thing. It's just something that will inevitably help anyone. and I had someone who wanted therapy after three months, which was a bit much.