Growing up I wish my parents kind of told me why not to do things instead of just saying no just because I said so type of thing I feel like I could've made a better decisions if I had a place of understanding maybe if they gave me examples from their life and talked about how they grew up a little bit more but that might be a cultural thing I'm Hispanic and my parents are from Mexico so I mean maybe it's just that but one piece of advice I will try and stress for my kids Is that not to take dating to seriously especially when they're young I feel like when you're young you're trying to figure out who you are and to try and figure out what you want in a partner my parents were very strict on dating so they told me I could not date him and basically until I was out of the house and that was like the rule for the longest time when I really wanted to date this boy I was 17 and it took forever to convince them and I because I really like this this kid and I had to bring him home to my parents they can meet him and anyway I guess I just didn't understand really what I wanted and a partner so from the outside he was he was a great person and everything and you know he never did anything bad he didn't party he didn't drink he didn't smoke he didn't like do any of that and he was super respectful But there was a lot of things emotionally that he was just immature and I wasn't getting those needs met and because my parents loved him and I thought I like well it's not gonna get any better than this it was super hard trying to convince my parents to date this guy like I'm just not gonna date anybody else like this is it for me and that relationship lasted for like four years and I was miserable like for two because I just didn't know what I wanted and I didn't want that relationship anymore so it lasted way longer than it should've so what are you guises like advice that you want to give to your kids so that maybe they'll have a better understanding of what you didn't have when you were going to let me Know

Yeah I cannot lie to the advice I will give to my kids protection as a word with kids in the first place you let me know

100% like believe in yourself and give it your all. I was raised like more of the same way you were and I definitely want to break that cycle. So, like just raising my kid with confidence.

Thank you.