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So two terms I keep seeing thrown around all over social media, especially when it comes to dating is love bomb and ghost And I want to know If it had to come down to it, okay, like I know these are both bad things But would you rather be love bombed or ghosted and why I rather be love bombed? because I feel like I could pick up on the signs that things might be going south versus you know if you're being ghosted it's like usually out of nowhere and it leaves a lot of unanswered things so yeah Definitely being loved bombed is something I rather have.
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I'd rather get ghosted and love bombing because love bombing it's great in the beginning until you realize that they're just super infatuated with you and not actually processing that you're a person with like actual emotional needs
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I really liked how you used the phrase actual emotional needs because I feel like that is so dismissed in today's society, especially with how disposable we've become. So I really appreciate you pointing that out.
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I would honestly rather be ghostin away because I think I've handled that a lot better than lake love bombing I think it fucked my mind when they came to the poly
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Even though I said the opposite of you, I totally can see where you're coming from. And like you said, you handle it better than, you know, having that mentally mess with you in terms of like what that person said while they were love bombing you. So yeah, totally get it.
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I think these both are awful but being ghosted probably way more ideal in the long run then love bombed at least do you have like a conclusion and you're not getting manipulated
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Yeah, I know they're both awful, but I was just using it as an example because I just keep hearing those words being thrown around. But getting back to what you said, I feel like conclusion is the perfect way to frame where you're coming from, especially in your perspective.
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I don't know how to explain this, but what you were saying about conclusions, it makes perfect sense to me because when you're being ghosted, you know, people are more equipped to know things are bound to end in dating and relationships versus just being completely wanting to be blindsided.
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