Breaking up is hard to do whether you're in a committed relationship or something casual. I get it. I've been there and the best advice I ever got to leave was that when somebody shows you who they are the first time, believe them. I just kept envisioning the situation that was honestly never really going to happen and I didn't want to be realistic about it. I kept dreaming up these things. Oh I can change him and this and that and it's it. No, like no no know, you can't look at the potential, you got to look at the now. And yeah, it gave me enough courage to get up and walk away and I'm so glad. And so I really hope that whatever situation you're in that's making you unhappy that you actually resolve things because you got to put yourself first and I'm sending you all the love and light in the world.

I'll probably say the best advice is always choose yourself like not to be selfish by your self worth and how you've yourself is very very important so it's good to choose yourself when people are being weird to you

I think it's really hard to heal when you're in the situation, right? Like we all have those friends that you tell them so many times and you show the evidence and they can't get out of it. because they're in that rut and they're not healing at the moment but I think