So there's a prompt on OKCupid that says I value dot dot dot and I filled it in with men who don't refer to grown women as girls because that's a pet peeve of mine and I matched with this dude and his first message to me was to reply to that and say I feel the same way about women who refer to grown men as boys and And I thought about it and I was like Fuck that Equality does not go both ways here because infantilizing women and Saying we're used up after the age of 30 and just basically everyone in the world thinking that our bodies are just like Open for anyone's interpretation or to make comments on Calling adult women girls is not the same because usually when I'm referring to a grown men as boys it's because they're acting like adolescent little fucking children and most of the time when men are referring to grown women as girls it's in an attempt to make us smaller than and less than and to uphold patriarchy so I unmatched that dipshit But, you know, one of the most valuable things someone said to me entering college was, just remember, college boys are exactly like high school boys, but they just say what high school boys think. And you're welcome for that one ladies.

That is true they do see what high school boys think and you know what it's just oh just like I don't even think it gets any better it really doesn't like there's so many now