Do you think it's acceptable if your partner still keeps in contact with some of their exes?

I feel like it really depends on the context of the contact and how long ago they dated, whether or not it ended badly, whether they stayed friends, I think it really depends.

In my personal opinion, I feel like the past is the past, so why would they have a need to keep in contact with their ex? I mean, if they have children, that's a different story, that would be acceptable.

Hell no! You gotta be stupid to accept that shit, you know what I'm saying? For me, I'm like, if you have a lot of exes as friends, why? You know what I'm saying? Is it because you think that this is not gonna work?

I mean, yeah, I think it's acceptable in a lot of cases, like if they have children with those exes, if they're friends with those exes. I mean, as long as it's not like coming between your relationship, why should it matter, you know? Let people be in contact with people they want.

Yeah, for me personally, I would say it's alright.

I think it all depends on the situation, right? Like how, what's the frequency? What was the type of relationship they had? It's not that simple.

That's a good question Pham I feel like it just depends on what are your guidelines that you set up when you first started the relationship like how do you what do you want

Absolutely not. Call it whatever you want. Tell me that I'm not emotionally mature. Tell me that I'm not healed, whatever. But if you still feel the necessity to speak to your exes, you should have no necessity to speak to me.

And I mean this with all respect, I just, like these things should not even, like, none of these things should even be a thing. Like when some, when, when God gives you real genuine love, you don't have to worry about these small little things.

A real man would understand and respect the person that he's with whether it be his wife or uh I don't and this word partner like you know with your boyfriend or girlfriend like I didn't why is it so wrong to say boyfriend and girlfriend now?