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Can a relationship thrive if one person was raised off survival & the other raised off love?

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Can a relationship thrive if one person was raised off survival and the other was raised off of love? Me personally, I do believe it can thrive as long as each party is Understanding and very aware of their partner and how they were raised and how they move because of how they were raised That is something that you know, you can't change you can help them, you know, learn different ways, but some people are stuck in their ways now, so if the person raised off survival is stuck in his ways or her ways, it probably won't thrive.
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Just want to say this, there's no ******* way you can be raised off love. You're either loved or you raised and they are different. I promise you, they're very different.
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I can see that. Go ahead and explain to me Chuck what it is to be raised. Just raised. because I was loved so I don't understand that life but I meet a lot of people who were.
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Okay, I'll give an example a ****** mother nine times out of ten Will raise her daughters, but she would love her sons and Nine times out of ten that grew up a little So, off.
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Absolutely thrive as long as the person that is raised all survival is open and ready to learn how to love the person that was already raised off love if that makes sense it is very possible
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I definitely agree and that definitely does make sense. The person who was raised off survival will have to do a lot more learning because they, you know, they're not used to So that love, but yeah, I get it.
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Nothing it's possible but it also in my opinion it really depends on the foundation of the relationship because the person responsible I will have still be willing to accept the love
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Thing the person I was raised off love if they don't have any like knowledge or background of dealing with those rays off survival if they're willing to learn how to cope with them or deal with them then yeah
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Same love so it's definitely a different world encountering people raise up survival banana boyfriend lasagna sauce arrival and we we connect very well because I'm going from him and he's like for me
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is definitely a different world and I am so thankful that I was raised off of love because I see how people were raised off survival and I just feel bad for them that they didn't get this love but I'm happy for you
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I'm glad that the man you're with now was raised off survival and you guys learned from each other. I am dating a man who was raised off survival and I don't know how well this is going to go girl, But either way, I'm trying to love them, but we'll
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I think so because I think the person who was raised off survival can get a chance to experience what it's like to not have to feel that way in a healthy like loving relationship and then and therapy and attachment styles and all of that.
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Yeah, I think so too. The person who is raised off survival will have to be open to love because it's so new to them. It's something different.
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This is such a good topic. In my opinion, if you really want to make a relationship work, you can make it work. You just have to put in the work, you know, regardless of your background, but backgrounds definitely play a part.
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Yeah, I'm now in the mindset of if they want to, they will. Because I'm learning that people do what they want to do. And they make time for who they want to make time for. So if you're not making time, then he's probably not the one.
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Okay, I really like this question. I am going to say yes. I feel like we were as people we're constantly learning things if we want to learn them and if we can learn each other's way of life.
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Or maybe the way of love, you know, then yeah, we can adjust, we can acclimate, you know, But I think it has to be a conscious decision of the two people.
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Yeah, those are the soft survival. Their love is very different. And I lived in a bubble majority of my life. Now that I'm an adult, I can see it and understand it. But when I was younger, I just didn't get...
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I think you can you just have to be able to join it as a persons world or understanding here in there you know
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I think that it can survive I think that it's hard as **** currently in a marriage like that and it is difficult but we love each other so we make it work
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