Okay, so for the ****** people with kids, because I know it's different for everybody, at what point does your child meet the person you are dating? I personally don't have kids, but the people I've dated who do have kids, some of them I've met them, you know, way early in the talking stage and some of them I didn't meet them at all. So at what point for you do you introduce your child to the person you're talking to or dating.