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So I was wondering I was having a conversation with someone today about how he doesn't want any more children he has three children I have one child he's like yeah I don't want no more kids blah blah whatever and I'm just like that's why I'm I still want to more because I can't leave my baby out in the world so how many y'all are basically you know in agreement with having more than one child or are you like all right I have my one and I'm done I'm good or even wish I cut off age for having children because I feel like that's a thing tonight like 36 is probably mine I'm two years old from there so wish I was cut off age for having key minutes
I feel like just because you have children outside of like the relationship you were in before, it's not a bad thing. If you decided that you're in a new relationship and they want kids and you want kids have kids contribute to that fact
Everything like everyone and a half kid I want to date and I that shit hard in so I'm not I'm so picky when it comes like dating now so it makes it even harder to find somebody I want to kid
Better yet somebody that wants kids and they're responsible so this is it is literally is like playing Tetris channel it's like date out here it is wow it is wow
OK so I'm right there in age with you and I'm like you know what I would not mind having more kids I would actually like to have more kids but my man and I will just let you know what we're blessed to have our son and if we have another child that be great and if not that is cool
Yeah, I can feel that. I definitely would like to have more children. And to be honest, even if I don't have more children, I'm probably gonna end up adopting somebody's baby. So, I mean, in that aspect, I guess we're covered, but still.
I still have the desire to be a mother again I am bringing it and she's only three so I got up she has time I down because I'm shutting the windows so very rapidly
I don't think you'll be leaving your child out alone in the world if you just had one child. They can still have a great social circle, friends, activities. Lots of thanks.
I think that only children possess a strength. And maybe that's just because I am one, but I know that my friends that have siblings, They're heavily reliant on what their siblings think of their choices and decisions.
I think the strength in being an only child is mastering the art of solace and peace. Knowing how to be by yourself, knowing how to be independent, knowing how to think for yourself and not be so dependent upon others. So they strengthen it.
I'm not gonna lie to you, I'm an only child and I only had one child. Now, his dad has other children. So he ended up not being only child, but he is my only child. And that will not be a good thing.
So I completely understand what you're saying and I am aspect I can definitely agree but what I mean is like when I've gone away when I pass away like I don't want her to be left to her in the left alone
My best friend is my only child and she has that exactly what you're talking about that piece that solitude that that everything However, I do want her to have siblings.
Oddly enough she does have two sisters but her sisters are about 20 years that's funny and 16 years older than her so she wouldn't and she's not gonna grow up with them I am for you know the reason
But I feel like if I didn't have any other children, I feel like she would, like that would be the last of like me. That would be the last of us, if anything.
And to be completely transparent I'm actually kind of terrified to have another child because I had a really traumatic pregnancy when I said well a traumatic delivery I'll say that but like is that is still on the table though so
I feel that I definitely feel like I'm like 3637 is pushing it like you got it if you catch me at the tail in the 36 yeah but 3036 is like the kitchen is close