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Is it wrong if your girlfriend or boyfriend goes to somebody and to talk about your relationship to somebody like if y'all get an argument or anything
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It's 100% wrong, especially if they haven't came to you and talked about the issue before going to somebody. Like if their immediate reaction is to go to someone else to get relationship advice on something that you two are currently dealing with, than they just don't value.
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They just don't value your part of the relationship and you know, it's a couple not a fucking throttle So there shouldn't be a third part in the relationship having any say so or in any opinion on what's going on with y'all those are private matters that should stay private between the two of you.
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Yeah you know it is it is like that it's normal shit that y'all should be talking about and normally when people talk to people about it instead of y'all fixing it it just starts to build up and let it keep going back
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Yeah, because you should probably be talking about the shit that you're talking about to other people about your partner, to your partner to fix the problem and not let resentment Get the best of you.
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I mean it's normal to talk to your friends about stuff that's bothering you I think like y'all might maybe need to set up some boundaries or something but I think it's normal
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It can get messy when you involve other people in the relationship and stuff so I can see why somebody would think that that's wrong but like when you think about it in a bigger picture do you doing the same thing right now
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And it depends on who you're telling like who are you put it in our relationship you know because I don't female friends and them female with male friends like I will not but I'm not gonna go tell my male friend about what the fuck going on in my relationship
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I mean yes because like why are you telling other people are fucking business like now everybody fucking knows because the person they told now they're going to tell other people like Wyatt like that shit really pissed me off
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I don't think so because it depends on the person. Personally, I go to my best friend to talk about my problems, so I don't think he would mind.
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I feel like it's not wrong, but it's not not wrong either because you can go to somebody and ask for like help, but you need to also talk to your partner at the same time because you need to solve those issues.
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Well in my opinion isn't wrong because like maybe they asking for a relationship advice and I want to do next or no
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Yeah that could be the case but I feel like his mom does it the end of the day you should not have to get relationship advice from anybody you're in a relationship with your partner that person can't give me relationship advice they don't know your partner like you do
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Yes, you are very true.
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Have to be the same gender you can't be a dude talking about your relationship with a girl then you can be a girl talking about your relationship with another dude
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It's 100% wrong a lot of the times when people do you feedback you never know if it's a seal if they had a wheel behind you just never know and I feel like if you can't genuinely talk to your partner about what your problem is then that's not the one for you
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