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This is a serious question. And I know I'm going to get some trolls and shit, but hopefully this goes out to people that will actually answer this seriously, because I really need help. Um, I'm lonely. I have only my mom as family and I have no friends in real life or that I talk to online. Like I do have some people I talk to online, but they're very inconsistent. and I wouldn't consider them friends and I just don't know how to get out of the hole I'm in because I am depressed because I'm lonely but I'm I choose to be lonely at this point because I'm so hurt and I'm trying to heal from the ship from the past and I'm a very anxious person and it is not under control so I'm just wondering how if anybody else deals with this how they motivate themselves and do that because I'm genuinely fucking struggling so yeah
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A friend is a friend you know I don't think lives really matter as far as friendships go at all like owl
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Exactly and I think the worst part is knowing that there are some people like that that one aesthetically pleasing friends like for their Instagram or whatever the fuck and just to take pictures and it's nothing like genuinely real
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Truth is everybody is different you know and Brooke not to scare you but it's gonna get worse before it gets better because that's just how it is so you're going to feel like you're at your lowest angle so I got your breaking point
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Or you just feel like you can't breathe that's the part where you have to understand there's nobody you can lean on you can only turn to yourself in the ones that love you and it's OK to be lonely
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I felt that so much I do things like that and it scares me that I think like that because I don't even feel like I have myself in that way and I don't know how the fuck I would get there
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OK I know which direction we have to go from here on out what do you love about yourself tell me that what do you love about yourself like genuinely just love about you
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I'm incredibly loyal. I think my loyalty is like my top trait. Like if I'm in it, I'm in it. Like I'm passionate. I'm there. Like, I'm literally a ride or die.
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Broke you hit it on the nail and you don't even know you hit it on the nail and I'm gonna tell you how you hit it on the nail You don't need anybody, but everybody needs you because you have a special trait which is loyalty. Not everybody can say that they're loyal.
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And I know you probably think this bitch is bullshitting me but I wish somebody was able to tell me that the trades that I have are needed by others more than I need them we think of it as though we need
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So I want you to realize that all of these traits that you have this special person that you are can be used to help others not look for others
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And by help others instead of look for others I mean if there's a situation where somebody needs you and you feel like oh that person never helps me or that person is not my friend you should still be willing to help them because they need you Siri
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I love that. I never really thought of it like that. So that's definitely something I'm gonna think about now. But I just don't understand how I can be so loyal to somebody that doesn't give two shits about me, but I can't be loyal to myself.
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What I mean by I can't be load of myself it's more like I know I need to do things but there's just times where I'm on a roll with it and then I just completely stop so it's like I'm not being a little myself you know
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I can't Lotto Brook I ask myself that same question you just as yourself lies like I just like it how do you put that much into some money and then I'm giving you shit but it's like you have to be that person in this life it just it just has to work forever
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Brooke, you have to get a routine and you have to follow that routine and you have to realize that while this routine is going on, I'm not going to have much interaction from anybody, but I'm keeping myself active and I'm keeping myself alive.
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Hey Brooke this is really fucking relatable because sometimes in my life it just takes a lot of energy to be with people and to be out in the world it can be
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I noticed that when I'm sad I don't really listen to a lot of music but when I'm happy I really love it a lot and so I kind of made a playlist for myself to listen to when I'm feeling depressed and lonely
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With songs that make me feel understood and like less alone because you know some sad girl music sometimes can make you feel a little understood but also ones that make me feel a little more hopeful you know they meet me where I am but they all
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Those songs can also make me like a happier and give me energy and kind of a beat till like work too young to like clean my remodel better make my bed it is some background music that kind of bums you up a little bit and gives you some energy perhaps maybe
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Honestly this is all just a theory because I am currently creating the playlist but I haven't really used it yet so I guess we'll see I just understand like how hard it can be and stuff
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I love that. I definitely listen to music. It's not curated to my mood, but I definitely listen to music, but there's just times where I'm listening to the music and then the music just just spades away and I'm just like thinking.
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It lowkey fucks me up because anything I do, it just, it'll fade away like if I'm listening to something like music, a TV show, doing anything, it just fades away and I'm just thinking. And it doesn't stop, like...
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Go to my on my pet cat
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I do realize that everything's in your own control sometimes she's had to get out your comfort zone
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Well, I'mma be real when I'm feeling down the dumps. I do my little perky dance. Do my little perky dance. through the little perky day.
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While you're like doing your perky dance or you like on your parks or like just doing a pig dance because like I want to do the pregnant and still having to be on perks like I'm sorry
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Fucking loser! How about you make some fucking friends? Maybe then you'll be happy. Fuckin' sitting in your fucking room doing nothin'.
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Your friends must fucking hate you if you be talking to strangers like this you must be really rude hope you get better what the fuck
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Look I can make this more than 15 seconds long all I can really tell you is you got to be able to have fun by yourself you can't rely on other people relying on other people is not sustainable you just Gotta do it yourself be happy with yourself
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You got a learn to make yourself laugh sometimes you know it might be hard sometimes but you got to be able to let loose maybe go out or no are you watch movies that's what keeps me happy I watch movies for 14 hours and be OK you just need to find something like that
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And I just got my permit I also really like fuck in traveling so you might die don't know you might like traveling as well meowed probably fucking try for hours at night oh no he's got a find something
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Me too I really love to drive especially at night with my music but then it's like I start thinking oh shit I'm here alone nobody's here when I get home I'm gonna be alone and then I see people in front
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I see people in public with other people and I'm just like damn this fucking sucks like I already feel like an outcast but then when I'm alone and there's just a bunch of people together I feel even worse so
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Are used to be like that too but then I realized fuck other people and I just start having fun with myself literally the key to your problem is just figuring out a way to make yourself laugh and have fun without giving a fuck about other people that is it
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