OK do you think that there is a sibling dynamic that play a role in like your family life or maybe with your like children if you have multiple kids I'm going up I have a total of five siblings which I have us all together and I am the only girl and but how I grew up was mainly with like the youngest two sibling so it's like my youngest brother me and then my older brother And there was definitely a huge like sibling dynamic especially being in a Hispanic household I was treated I feel I was like just I was a lot more like held down if that makes sense like that my parents were to stricter on me they expected a lot more out of me and made me feel like I had to do a certain thing for them to be proud of me my youngest brother obviously got away with a lot more I'm him being five years younger than me there's a lot of things that he is doing at a lot younger age that I was never able to even ask about And going forward with my kids I don't have a boy yet I have two girls in all the way agree with some things on my parents did keep me out of a lot of trouble but I had the same time I don't like the dynamic that I was treated differently depending either on their gender or their age I mean as time passes obviously you know you learn a lot differently and maybe things work out a different pace but I feel like I've things world slot worse my brother he is so not responsible for anything and just gets away with a lot in general so I feel like that has ended up with him being just he was left out with a lot he doesn't know how to take care of his normal day-to-day stuff and he's missing out on that in life I feel like that's the kind of almost wasn't a fair chance for him because he didn't grow up with the same expectations that my older brother or I had but anyway what do you think what was your family dynamic like and how are you and put that into your future family if you do have kids

So for me, we're actually three in total. I am the youngest and I have an older brother and an older sister And yeah, I feel like the dynamic definitely has a lot to do with with how

I hate that this app just cuts me off and I have no idea where it cuts off. Anyways, yeah, growing up I always was the youngest one, so I got used to being taken care of.

And but for some reason as we grew up I start a talk like the older sister role because my mom got together with her partner and her partner has kids so

So I live with them for a few years as well from them I was older so then I took like the older sister role so that was interesting so I know what it's like to be an older sister and a younger sister