Good afternoon, I have more thoughts on this. So something I'm thinking on is like, and picking up on is like, when you're out and about and you know, sometimes people are not going to be comfortable when you're comfortable and you're not going to be comfortable when they're comfortable. And whether you see that or not, it's not your fault, it's just a matter of something thing of discovery but yeah um trying to think on that about uh trying to uh see that people aren't always comfortable and trying to even open yourself up to that and taking chances and facing your fears all of that is important for growth because then we realize that that's when we can be of service and use to others and then relationships are built even mended that way and we get to see other people and whether or not we can give ourselves that's another question and there may be a misunderstanding and yeah, people may not ask for clarification and they have their reasons or whatever, that's fine but we can't always offer it but the more that we try the more that we see and I think that basically this is for me I don't like to close off any relationships unless something really despicable has happened.