guys, because you know when someone says, oh I feel bad for you right? They say, if you feel bad for someone, why are you not helping them out? Like, you know that you feel bad and you're not helping them out. Like, then they're just being like really mean. So, like, why feel bad for someone when you're not going to help out? Just don't. Like, go away. So, like, it's not even that hard to understand, to be honest. You're just going to constantly feel bad and bad for them every single day and it's not going to help them is it like you've got to do something to stop it otherwise it's just being like a bit selfish if i'm fair but like yes