you know one thing i'm noticing about people is there are a lot of people that feel that way that i can't tell people how i really feel because i don't want people to worry i don't want people to stress out um and stuff like that but there are just a lot of people that feel that way when you open up that conversation you might be surprised by how many people share that same sentiment and you could build a community around that you know now we can all be open now healing can take place communication can take place and