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Oh my goodness you guys, holy divine timing. Listen to this email I got. So the heading is, my therapist said this to me today. Cheating, lying, whatever you do, does not define your existence on this earth. What defines your existence on this earth is the mosaic of all of the things that you do. One choice does not define your existence. This email came from a company called We're Not Really Strangers, and it is really on par with everything talked about this week. But I want to know, do you agree with what this email says? For me, I do, even though I've never cheated in a relationship. I have lied and I've owned up to that responsibility. And you know, we have all made mistakes. And those mistakes teach us to be better people. It doesn't own us. So So yeah, I would love to hear your thoughts.
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I agree to an extent it's not necessarily the end of the world when you make choices like they obviously everyone makes mistakes but reputation is a big factor when it comes to how people look at you and how people perceive you
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Oh wow, I really appreciate your perspective. Thank you so much because honestly, I'm glad you brought up the word reputation because that is something that I always talk about in society in terms of how people view you and how you view them. And naturally we're human, you know, we do judge.
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I really do my best to not be judgmental and give everybody a safe space and all that stuff, but I feel like when it comes to myself, I'm super harsh. And so that email really hit me, you know.
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Especially because some people have been so hurt that you know they don't want to go through someone's habitual cycle you know like if someone she did in their last relationship does that mean you'll cheat on me and this one you know a lot of people just want their insight
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Yeah, you know, like everybody wants to be loved and everybody wants to feel comfortable as well when they're loved. Nobody wants to play the game of when are you going to do this, when you're going to do that.
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I would definitely agree with this email. Like everyone makes bad choices from time to time, but you know, that is not the destination of your life. You know, you still have room to change. you still have room to grow.
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Love that you said that there is room to grow because there is opportunity for people to do better and be better and you know improve in life and and to shut it down so fast would be really harsh don't you think?
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I don't think it's the most useful approach to be honest because most people who lie are liars, most people who steal are thieves, and most people who cheat are cheaters, and most people do not change. So if someone reveals to you that they have a reprobate mind, You better believe them.
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And yes, some people are willing to do the work, but that doesn't mean that they're doing the right work. It doesn't mean that the work they're doing is accomplishing anything, and it doesn't mean that they're going to be where they need to be anytime soon. soon. Unfortunately, a lot of people have to learn this the hard way.
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I 100% agree with you. That's why I always tell people some people don't change their behavior They change the person that they like handle their behavior with you know what I mean? So, no, I totally get where you're coming from.
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I definitely think I do agree with an emo mistake does not make your life but it is the actions that follow by mistake which will define US define your character right in your reputation and how you're perceived
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Yes I actually do I do agree whatever that bad things sad not gonna lie it's because it's like this if you've done stuff that it was just like once or just a few times and you didn't wanna do it and yeah I understand that but
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But if it's a some thing that you have been doing nonstop like they're like it's just basically like a whole cycle of just the same exact shit every single fucking day then yeah that's basically who you are just a psycho and just a phase of
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It's basically like this is where it's like this if you're someone I just continuously doing the exact same shit every single day of your life you're just gonna be a phase for someone to be with you're basically like a lesson for someone not to be with it's sucks man
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