I'm going to keep it a buck 50 with you, my G. Love is a form of self-interest. The black man seeks to have what he has been denied by his oppressor, which is the white woman by his white massa. You are lost in the source. OK, you're stuck in a cave of coochie. You need to come up out the snow. You need to snap back into reality. Love is a form of self-interest, investment of self-interest at that. And you are investing your self-interest into this woman because you feel that you need what you can't have. Boom.