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Why is it when I post photos of myself online I get absolutely bashed for it because I'm a bigger lady? What is wrong with bigger ladies? Yeah maybe it's not your type but that doesn't mean you have to go on and bully that person for it. Yes it's probably not healthy and I know it's not healthy for me but that's not gonna change with you yelling at me so...
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It is simply not a pleasant view to look at, and to be honest, it'd be terrible to live in a society where this type of lack of care for one's health is promoted in society. We are actually living in that type of society, so do not be offended. Just realize that that is not you, it is simply a result of your behaviors.
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Alright, you already made an assumption. Number one, alright, we love big girls around here, but we just don't like fat girls. There's a difference. There is indeed a difference.
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what do you mean like i don't get it like what do you mean like are you saying they deserve harassment or you just don't find them attractive like if that's what you mean then i don't really care but like are you saying it's okay to bully quote-unquote fat women to you
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He said don't like, so I'd probably say the fat girls aren't his type, not that they deserve harassment because he didn't say I hate them, he said I don't like them.
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Nah, little silly lady. I do not want them to be bullied. However, comma, I don't like fat women. Like, in terms of attractiveness. I don't see, I don't see it. I don't get it. I don't understand it. That's unhealthy. But, I do love big women. And there is a difference. Indeed, there's a difference. But yeah.
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wait i don't understand the difference because if you're fat you're big but if you're not what if you're big and you're not fat what huh
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He means curvy.
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But curvy people aren't big.
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Instagram curvy and actual curvy are two different things.
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Yeah, because fat women are unhealthy, and they don't look after themselves. Big women are curvy, lovin' it, you know what I mean?
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As long as she smell good, she's soft, feminine, comfortable in her femininity, and she doesn't see anything wrong with her body, and she's fully confident, not just overly confident because there's a culture created around it, but she truly loves herself in that form.
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I'm not gonna say all guys because most guys are decent, but it's only like 50% of men but like all men care about is How much sex they can have and how badly they can nut inside you and if you don't look like a latino girl a hot Asian chick or a basic white girl. They don't want to mate with you because Either you're too fat. You're too skinny. You're too dark, or you're too late And that's what I don't understand about half the men in our population because it's just like
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This right here, this is exactly my point
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Also I was reading some of the other comments and let me just make this clear when you guys say oh we love big girls around here but we just don't like fat girls you're preferring to their ass and a skinny waist okay big girls and big butts are not the same please don't compare us to that
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Big girls are big girls. Not big booty girls with skinny waist or thick girls with a chubby waist. We're big girls. So big girls and big booty girls are two different things. Don't call a big booty girl a big girl because she is not a big booty girl. Just because she has a big butt does not mean that she is a big girl.
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So number one, what is going to prompt you to look after your health and to get in shape? Because if someone else is not going to do that, what is it going to take? Number two, why post pictures of yourself on the internet in the first place? Because you are looking for some validation in some respect.
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Posting pictures of myself is not looking for validation. That is me being comfortable in my own skin. That is me posting pictures because I think I look good. I'm not trying to look for validation from anyone. Not men, not women.
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Yes it is, it is looking for validation, because if you said that you're comfortable in your own skin and you think you look good, all that matters is your opinion, so why are you posting it? Now the pictures are public and now someone else has given their opinion, now you're upset because you want other people's thoughts to match your own and that's not going to happen. So if you're not looking for validation, don't post the photos from anyone and no one will tell you what they think.
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I mean, I just gotta put that out there. She's not looking for validation. I post pictures of myself 24 fucking 7 and Because I just like the way I look and just putting it out there and second of all she probably eats healthier than me Just because you're a little bit more on the chubby side doesn't mean you eat Unhealthy I eat junk food 24-7, but I'm more on the skinnier side because I have like a fast metabolism or whatever, but yeah
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I don't know how you can be so certain that she's not looking for validation, because the main thing of, if you're posting pictures and you're putting something out there, you can't make that claim that it's just for you, because just for you would be on your phone. So the moment that you publish it, it's open to the public for their opinion, right? And people don't post things for others to have bad opinions about them, hence why this woman is upset, you know, about being called certain things.
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I mean, when I post pictures, it's for me, really, because I like how I look. And she probably posts pictures because she likes how she looks in the moment. And if you want to comment on it, comment on it. I really wouldn't give a shit. So...
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yeah but that's a contradiction how are you posting pictures for you because at the end of the day when you take a picture that's for you when you post it is for the world so that's a contradiction people don't post pictures for them they post but as a matter of fact if you do post pictures for you it's for your ego and you're seeking validation for your ego if you like how you look subconsciously you want others to like how you look too and you would appreciate that same
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This man right here has a brain.
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she posted it because she thought that if she posted it everyone would think that they would support her of how big she is and that's what's wrong with this world you're too big you're too skinny you're too thin you're too fat you're too chubby you're too small you're too tall don't you see like we post one thing and it doesn't even have to be about our body we could just be posting a picture of our face and people are like oh you have a fat face
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Maybe because you don't have any clothes on, maybe, just a possibility that you, that's because you don't have any clothes on, so maybe.
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I don't see a problem with it because, you know, it's your life, you know. But sometimes, you know, people choose to give their opinion of what they've seen, you know, because you choose to put yourself on the media, and that's the consequences of boasting yourself on a platform where there's many strangers.
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There's a point of being big and being big and sloppy and being big and sloppy tells you need to lose weight.
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that's not really on topic or like answering the question but that's a beautiful drawing like did you draw that cuz you did props to you
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