Do y'all check on y'all's spouse's mental health or do y'all just assume your spouse is good at all times? Let me know.

I always check in with my significant other if they're doing okay because I care about their mental health and I always try to make sure that I'm doing something right.

Yeah I think it's some thing that we didn't really try like to focus on early on but obviously like life happens and I feel like we do a better job of that and if not and if you need some thing just communicate it to your partner that's some thing I struggle with

How do you even start asking if they're OK like how do you know

to add to what I was saying is like even if there are saying like oh yeah I'm fine because they always seem to be fine right so it's like even when they are like quote-unquote fine it's like you know like how would you know like how would you know they're not really doing

Yep, all the time, even if he's annoyed and you don't feel like answering any of my questions, I'm going to ask, are you okay? And then I'm going to find out if he's okay. If you care, you're going to ask.

Absolutely I think it is super important in any type of relationship to do those in a check ups because it's kind of like a reflection of how you're doing as well you're not making sure that they are OK right it just goes to show that you're not OK with them now

100% you should always be checking in with your partner. That being said, you can't help or change them. They need to do it themselves. So you can guide a horse to water where you can't make a drink.

Yeah I think your mental health should be a priority in me know You are more important the more important your mental health is more important than the relationship

Always because you know if that person isn't in the right mental state to be in a relationship that you should respect that it's not them trying to get out of it but sometimes it is but you should respect how they're feeling you should always ask me if they're okay

Mental health is important in everything like there's no area or aspect of life in which it's not important