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Okay, so for my people in relationships or dating, how do you guys get over arguments? I know for my husband and I, we will typically talk it through if it's like an easy fix, but if it's something that's a little bit more deep, we will take like a day or not really a full day, but like, we'll take some time to actually get our thoughts together and like talk about it. But it ultimately comes down to talking about it. And even during that time we are still talking to each other. It's just we don't say anything that we would regret in the future. So yeah, let me know what you guys, how you guys get over it and you know what works for you guys.
Me and my girlfriend to get over our argument, we will sit next to each other, we will hold each other's hands, we will look in each other's eyes and be fully present. our love language is touch so we use it to our advantage.
Even if we are in a bad mood, we may go take a little break before and then the other person will come back but the majority of the time we sit there and talk it through and resolve instead of just run away from each other.
Okay, I love that you and your girlfriend are very present with each other. And you know, you guys have a very effective way of communicating when you argue. I think that's the biggest thing, you know?
Finding an effective way to talk about for one what happened and resolving the issue because I think when couples learn to realize, hey, it's not us against each other, it's us against the problem. That's when the
That is when things, you know, start to go up for that relationship because you realize like it's not you, it's not me. Let's just tackle the problem together, you know?
Yes, that's the one. I was literally just thinking about it's not us against each other whether it's us against the problem. And a lot of couples, a lot of individuals in a relationship just want to be right and...
And honey, it's not necessarily about being right. It's about making your point, making or not making but having your partner understand your perspective and see how things can be changing the future.
How things can be changed in the future so that this situation does not arise again in this pattern poor situation can be completely smashed. So thank you for recognizing that we are very present. We are two very aware individuals.