Okay so good morning everyone. What is your biggest fear when you are dating or in a relationship? I think my biggest fear is that just like you know they'll wake up or my husband will wake up one day and we'll just be like yeah I'm not feeling this no more and as irrational as that sounds I feel like it's definitely still possible and I tell him this all the time but he always reassures me and you know it's definitely a hope but I just it's happened to me before so it's like you know I'm not crazy and I think not I think I know he also has his fear himself so it's like both of us are reassuring each other but yeah what's your guys biggest fear?

My biggest fear is because I have borderline so it is a complete shit show my biggest fears one of these days I'm going to push him away enough that he's actually going to leave so it's just a lot of regulating a lot of trying to not get to that point it's it's not it's a lot it's a lot

Yeah I understand the feeling you're talking about and I guess that's mental so that the feeling I think no one should experience that