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Do you guys believe that you can take advice from a single person as a married person? Um, I'm gonna say yes and no. I feel like you know when someone is on some bullshit and they're giving you dumb advice versus someone who has a lot of wisdom and is able to actually like, you know that they would practice that themselves. So how do you guys feel about taking advice from a single person? I'm so curious to know your answers
Wow, I actually love this question. It's a very good one. I think it definitely depends on the person. I think that being single doesn't necessarily mean that you don't have any experiences or like advice that you could give surrounding relationships. Like being single could mean so many things like you could be inexperienced, but you could also be very experienced and be single. And I think an experience aside.
I agree with you a thousand percent. Um, I feel like whether the person is single or not, um, that doesn't deter me from taking like any kind of relationship advice. Just because, I mean, yeah, they're single, but they still, it doesn't limit their ability to share their own experience, um, whether they were in a relationship or what worked best for them at that time, you know?
I, um, you mentioned how your sister is divorced, but you would absolutely still take advice from her. Um, I, the first person that came to mind in my family was my brother. Um, he's not married or divorced. Um, he's always been single, but he has a lot of wisdom. Um, he's always had a lot of wisdom. Like, he's always been like an old man and like a youthful body. So, uh, you know, I would definitely take advice from him for sure.
And like you said too, like with my brother, he hasn't found the right person yet. And he's really cautious though too, so I think that's another thing. But I, yeah, I think it wouldn't be fair to limit them from any, like limit them from giving any advice, you know? So I completely agree with you.
Thank you, thank you, yeah. Um, no, yeah, I definitely agree with what you said too. People could be in a relationship and give like the worst kind of advice just because they love the toxic life and then you can find someone who is single and is like, okay, so they've been through some stuff. So I completely agree with you there. a thousand percent.
Honestly I believe that you should focus on your relationship in and not take advice from anybody else but you and like maybe a close friend not really advice but maybe tips or just smart suggestion and see me half but really go based off you and what your thoughts are in note and maybe that person is single for a reason maybe it's just different for everybody
So sorry if it sounds like I'm yelling, but no, I get what you're saying where, you know, you there's a reason why they're single. But you never know that person's situation. Maybe they got cheated on and they know their worth, you know, so I don't know. I mean, I'm not fully opposed to it, but I also completely still get your point on like, okay, what did they do in their relationship? But also, you know, people learn. learn.
I totally would take advice from a single person versus a married person. I mean, most of my friends from married have settled, and I think a lot of single people have a lot of wisdom. They've gone through a lot more, and they don't settle. But it depends, I have some single friends who are just hypocrites.
Great, people can definitely be hypocrites and it's definitely annoying but I definitely agree with you. I would still take the advice of a single person. You never know what wisdom they have, you know, about relationships or marriage even, what they would have done differently and what would have maybe worked better. so for sure.
Yeah because just because they're single doesn't mean that they can't give good relationship advice and it's also good to have a perspective outside of the relationship chime in on a situation to
you a thousand percent because yeah I mean like you said it's it offers a fresh perspective outside of the relationship but also you never know what they have to offer like they definitely could have something that that you never thought of or that your partner never thought of. So yeah, for sure.
This is a hard one because it's like well they truly get it if they haven't experienced it but then again is it kind of bias to kind of just go off of them being single and not understanding and sometimes you can understand a situation or have insight on something and hasn't been through it so it's kind of in the middle for me
I love that you brought up this. I was thinking this as well where it's like, oh well are they gonna be biased or you know so you brought up really good points for sure. I think it just ultimately also depends on who you trust talking to if they are single and what they've I guess disclosed to you in the past. It really just depends you know and some people they may have wisdom on in that area but you never know.
I think you can because a single person is in the dating field and then what's going on and if you're in a relationship and things are because all relationships have that like you know you get used to the person and things get kind of like routine and boring so you have a single friend who's dating and in the dating world they probably see things that's going on in your relationship that you can't see or have a different kind of perspective I think single people can't give relationship advice.
I do like that. Yes. Thank you for sharing this. Once it's a fresh perspective in your relationship, you know, and hopefully it's not biased. Like, you know, hopefully friends are being biased towards, you know, obviously their friends. But yeah, no, I completely agree.
Look, I gave the best damn advice about relationships when I was single. Did I take my own advice? No. But I gave the best damn advice. I will say that.
And I was just gonna say I feel like single people really do have a lot to offer when You know giving relationship advice when they are single my brother gives them really great advice He's been single for like ever it seems like but it's like They're able to see things that you aren't able to see they're not blinded by love or whatever the fucking case is you know? So yeah.
And I was just gonna say I feel like single people really do have a lot to offer when You know giving relationship advice when they are single my brother gives them really great advice He's been single for like ever it seems like but it's like They're able to see things that you aren't able to see they're not blinded by love or whatever the fucking case is you know? So yeah.
I mean not all relationship experts are married or in a relationship sometimes you were single for a reason and that's just is not settling or whatever but I think I would take those from a single person because they definitely have some ideas so like what I can do to love myself and be with myself for the time being
Yes, that part. You never know why people are, I guess, single. If they choose to be single, whether it was something that they went through with the past relationship. So yeah, for sure, I agree with you.
I agree with you all the way yes and now there's two type of single people someone that is bouncing around has a horrible idea of relationships and the other person that is single that knows what they want what they deserve a yes and you know and is healthier than the other person to say I am So yeah I'm just really depends on the person and how much wisdom they truly have like you said
Okay, I like how you broke that down into two different kinds of single people because, yes, absolutely agree with you there. I feel like, uh, yeah, the toxic single people, nah, I would never take advice from them. But the people that are single because they for one choose to be and they've learned from their past relationships or or whatever, of course, yeah.