So whether you're single, dating, in a serious relationship, who do you go to for relationship advice? For me, it's definitely one of my best friends or I'll tell my sister what's happening. And I just love getting their perspective on the situation because it's really helpful to have a fresh set of eyes on the ordeal. Yeah, would love to know.
Yes yes so in reply to your reply but also a second to my post that's pretty much what I end up doing and it works out it's a good fucking strategy you know
I've found in my life that guys don't really give good perspectives. they're kind of biased so I usually just go to my sisters and then go with my own instincts.
That's interesting. That's kind of like what I find if I asked my woman my women friends you know my girlfriends who advise I don't I don't find that they give good advices from a good perspective either and I get the best advice from men actually.
Yo, I agree with you on having a fresh set of eyes or somebody to talk to, but to be honest, I try to discuss everything with the person I'm with. If I don't like something about them, I try to explain it, talk to them about it.
I'm right there with you, exactly. I feel like communication is key and that's why if something's going on with my partner, I rather just talk to my partner directly and tell him like, hey, this is how I'm feeling and how do we move forward from this?
Whatever I need relationship advice, I tend to ask my best friend because my best friend is a guy and he can give me the guy's perspective. Normally it's like a confirmation thing.
You know to be honest that's dope that you like your relationship they are they're cool Which we having a guy best friend cuz I know most relationships they be like no, I had no guy best friend or or vice versa, you know what I mean.
I love that you brought up that you have a guy best friend and just like what someone else commented here I think it's really cool that you have the support of another male figure besides your dad or your brother or a male cousin, it's nice to know that you have a guy best friend in today's day and age.
Yeah lotta relationships aren't cool with having best friends of the same sex but thankfully like as soon as I met my partner I was very upfront with who my guy friends were and what they mean to me
Yeah, that's it really. I find that being upfront and honest and Being honest that they are just friends as well and including him in friendship, you know usually helps not being sneaky and be hiding his back you know what I mean
So I always go to the same two people for advice. It's always my twin sister because she's gonna keep it real with me no matter what and also my best friend because she's just very super blunt and I respect her opinion.
Yeah so I'm a guy am telling girls I go to other girls for dating advice I feel like other guys can be biased felt like guys at the front bias hour yeah I tend to go to girls for girls bespoke
Yeah, that could be true. I mean, I think it depends on the girls too though cause you might meet a girl that might like you or something and you trying to explain to her which we don't like in the relationship. She just telling you, oh, leave her, leave her. And that can be good.