So in today's dating world, especially for the first date, it's really common to meet up somewhere rather than relying on one another for transportation. But back then, like the older days, there were guys who were totally fine picking up a lady on the way to go do whatever was planned. But nowadays, I feel like that's so different based off so many reasons. So ladies, if a man asks you to pick them up for a first date, is that okay with you? Like, do you feel comfortable driving or is that a turnoff, or you feel like he should figure that out on his own? Because personally, based off safety, I would say that he needs to figure it out on his own because I don't feel comfortable letting a guy into my car that I don't really know. Like, if he was my boyfriend, oh, that's totally different. But, you know, usually for first dates, it's with somebody you don't know too well. So again, don't feel comfortable letting him into my car. And also it'd make me question like why he didn't prepare transportation. I understand that life happens, but there's like Ubers and Lyfts and other ways of transportation, like buses and trains. Like, I just wouldn't understand why he would want me to go get him. And also I feel like if the date doesn't go well, like you have that added responsibility of figuring out a way for him to get home. I don't know. I don't know. I feel like it's an odd question. I heard about it earlier this week and I've been thinking about it nonstop. So I just wanna see where you guys stand on this. And if you're a guy and you're hearing this question, would you ask a lady to drive you on the first date or is that something you would never do? Let me know.

Actually, I haven't been on a date in like years, you know, I haven't found the one person that I would like to share my life with, my likes with, my everything with, my love, my soul, my, you know, so.

I recorded this message. This is my third time recording. I sound like a snob. I am a snob listen first date if you where's your car Like where where is your car? Is it in the shop? You know, but then I feel like you shouldn't be going on the date if the car is in the shop But if you're really interested ideas, I don't really know but my point is you have to have a car like I'm in my 30s No, you must come with car

If I've known the person for a while and then we're like oh you know do you want to like try you know going a romantic route like you want to go on a date, then yeah they can pick me up but if they're brand new and I met them just yesterday type shit, hell no. One, you ain't gonna know where I live. Two, I'm not gonna get into a car with you. You're still a stranger. So, depends.

absolutely no like stranger danger like like you gotta be safe and that's not like that's also for guys too not just girlies you know but like I feel like if it's the first date then both parties need to go in their separate cars and you know then later down the road or like couple days later on

number one I want to add this I feel like you talk too much so I just want to give you a heads up so if you're going on a date and you talking to a man I'm I'm just probably just looking from his perspective that he's gonna think that you talk too much sometimes you're gonna learn how to let the man lead and that's probably why they're not wanting to pick you up because you don't know how to let a man lead but hey I could be wrong I could be wrong