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Okay, so if you are in a relationship, marriage, dating, or you just want to chime in, do you guys feel like when you are with your person, do you ever feel like you need space from them or like do you always like to be around them? Do you like the person? I guess is what I'm trying to say. I feel like so many people don't like who they're with and they just love them, which love is great, obviously, but it's different when you like the person too. I like the person I'm with and I love him too, but I noticed a big difference with my past relationships that I did not like the other people I was with. I just loved them. I'm in, let me know.
oh my gosh um yeah this is a really good question and this is something that I've noticed in the past like two years about liking someone and loving someone.
Like I realized in my relationships in the past, I would say I love you, but I would never want to say I like you, you know? my current partner. I love her to death and I like her. I enjoy her.
and i don't ever like having space from her but when we do i feel like it's like a reunion when we see each other again it makes our experience that much more deeper.
So crazy thing is my husband brought that up like a year and a half ago or something like that and and he was like, you know, I really like you. Like I love you, but I really like you.
And I was kind of like taking it back because I'm like well what the fuck why don't you love me like how you like me So I fell some type of way, but then explaining it. It's like oh my god I would much rather a person like me than love me.
So hear me out. Hear me out. The reason why I say that is because family for instance, right? We love our family. Do we like all of our family? Hell to the motherfucking no. We are obligated to to just love them.
and ever since he brought that example up I was like oh my god but like I like this man a lot I'm so glad that you like your girlfriend too like it's it's a big difference. It's a big difference.
Yes, yes, yes, I need space. I need a breathe. Like I can like you, I can love you. But you know, sometimes you need just time to yourself. And there definitely is a big difference between like and love. like we have.
The difference between like and love is you can have love for somebody for sure, but you don't like somebody That's different. You probably don't even like to be around them that much everything they do, the noise, the fuck out of you, like, it's a big difference.
Yeah, it's a real big difference. Like, I don't know. When you experience the difference, you can tell even with your own mannerisms with how you do with that person versus how how you used to do with other people, you know?
I ain't gonna I'm agree with them again all white with the dreads and the beard I'm gonna hear because I I don't have friends and I have social anxiety. So this is the best way I'm gonna talk to motherfuckers, okay?
I absolutely get this so much and I hear you like it's absolutely it has to be a healthy balance You know where I feel like when your friends are like damn like you always bring this guy with you like damn like get your own space you know it's absolutely
I definitely love this question because I don't have a believer on give me my space let me process with my boyfriend sees that as like me overthink and he doesn't want to give me the time to overthink so I can see you both ways
Yeah, see, I feel like I've had to communicate that with my husband. And he's had to communicate that with me too, with how, like, you know, if we argue or whatever, We just need some time to like literally think.
because the last thing that i want to do is like lash out at anybody or you know not say the correct thing like i'm an overthinker i'm an overthinker but like i don't my thing is let me just just give my thoughts right and then I'm gonna tell you, you know?
When I liked and loved somebody, I wanted to be around him all the time. I wanted to do everything together and then when that love turned into hate well as you can see I'm single so you know where
No, but that's so true though. Um, and that hate, that hate really be something though, because it's like, nah, One little fuck up, you know, one little fuck up and it just turns everything upside down.
I feel like there's a difference like with like you just like you know you like to be around them but you don't really like to be around them all the time with love you want to be around them all the time but also you'll jump in front of a bullet for this person like that that's love