Charles Horton Cooley, an American sociologist at the start of the 20th century, said, I am not who you think I am. I'm not who I think I am. I am who I think you think I am. A statement which helps to capture the complexity of identity. One of the most challenging things that human beings face is knowing themselves. People can sit and they can rattle off for hours and hours and hours, what they don't want. I don't like this. I don't want that. I don't want to be fat. I don't want whatever. But whenever you flip that question around and you ask them, what do you want? There's crickets. So my challenge to you each this evening before I go to bed is to take a little bit of time and start making a list, a three-part list, 30 things you want to do, 30 things you want to have, and 30 things you want to be before you die. It's very interesting how similar the items on the lists become when you get to that final one of 30 things you wanna be. The other thing that I'm gonna say is, take a moment as well to define what it means to be happy. To you. Cause a lot of people say, I just wanna be happy, I just wanna be happy, I just wanna be happy, but they don't even know how they define it. In fact, they just honestly define it based off of what they think from other people. But it's like a lot of people that you look up to that are successful or they have this or they have that or whatever, they're actually not as happy as you think they are. So take some time and know yourself.