Why is it that y'all are so afraid of commitment and I will literally do any and everything and treat a girl just like her girlfriend but literally in public and barely claim her let alone even consider asking her to be your girlfriend it'll be like literally a year plans of talking like what is it like to talk about you know I'm saying like I need answers like I need to explain myself ASAP

The only reason why a guy wouldn't claim a girl public is because she's known for sleeping around. Another reason why a guy won't commit is because there's not much being brought to the table outside of sex.

I think it's all based off of vibe I've met people who've seemingly checked off all of my boxes and I wasn't ready to commit to those people and I've met people who've only checked off some of those boxes and after a few weeks I'm ready to be exclusive so I think it's all based off connection