So the ultimate thing and has always been once a cheater always a cheater do y'all believe that once a month you third liable to cheat again or do you feel like what time and healing that the person can change and become the perfect partner for someone I just feel like for me personally I do believe that people can turn a new leaf and make the right changes for themselves if they want to cause cheating is always a choice you don't just keep your fun you know what I mean so I mean some people might but I just feel like any type of change can happen if the person is willing and genuinely wanting to make that change what are y'all think