Let's talk about why men love the chase. Like why is it that once a girl starts showing her emotions back versus playing hard to get or whatever the case may be or like kind of showing too much too quickly you guys tend to lose interest versus when sometimes when we really do play hard to get it's like you guys truly love the chase or like we're kind of just is giving little droplets at a time. It kind of keeps you guys intrigued. But is that just like the nature of the beast? Cause you guys just want to earn the person to keep you guys interested. Or is it like overall an underlying reason as to like once that chase, like once you've captured what you needed to and you no longer have to chase, you guys just get bored. Like what is it? I just, I need someone, I need a man to break it down. But if the woman can break it down, I'm here for that too.

This is like a younger boy thing I think in my opinion because when I was young I loved the chase and that's because it was more fun and once the chase was done I was done with it but I think that's what it is. I think as you grow up you grow out of that phase but I don't know I had a 30 year old mind that I do the same shit so I don't know.

I said depends on the timing for me personally if a girl shows too much interest right in the beginning I don't particularly feel special kind of feels like she's just desperate and I'm at the right place at the right time where she is she's taking the time to get to know me and then shows interest it feels more special

Now I could be wrong but I honestly feel like when men chase you heavily and then stop once they get you I feel like they never really wanted you in the first place I feel like it's just an ego thing like oh, let me just see if I can Get this woman or get her to have feelings for me and then after that they're like, oh my ego is boosted I don't need you anymore. So I feel like that's what it is.