So this topic came up because Sophia Richie's wedding has been trending all over TikTok. It's so beautiful. They got married in the South of France and her style has like really really changed. And Sophia Richie, like I know who she is. I think she's like pretty, I don't know, she's just not someone that I follow very closely. So it was really interesting to see a lot of the videos that people have been posting about her fashion when she was dating Scott Disick to now that she's a little bit older and obviously just got married to somebody else. And it went from very fashion nova girly to rich wife, if you get what I'm saying. And I have been struggling with this and I would love to have that kind of put together rich mom aesthetic even though I'm not a rich mom. But I guess I just don't know how to do it and I feel like I'm an adult who has never found their personal style. Like I used to dress like a fashion over girl and all of those trendy fast fashion places like that's what I would buy. And when I was younger, like I was dressing to go out to clubs, I was dressing for like male attention and I was dressing to show off my body versus then I got pregnant at 24 and during COVID. So like I wasn't going anywhere and I was pregnant, gained, I didn't get a ton of weight, but I gained some. And like I've just, my son is now two and a half and I've just been living in sweatpants for what feels like forever. And now I'm 27, a full-blown adult, and I have no idea what my personal style is. None. Does anyone else feel this way? Like I feel so confused and I don't even know where to start with, where to buy things, what to buy, et cetera.

This definitely sounds like me I I literally just went to target and bought like all those like cute matching tops and bottoms I could gather except the fact that they're like that stretchy material like him Kind of like leggings and matching legging tops that like yeah so yeah I have definitely not found my style I feel like I living I live in leggings like I just want to dress cute but at the same time

Yes so another thing is to because I'm still like losing weight I guess from the pregnancy it's hard like I don't want to keep buying clothes like I bought jeans and I like they don't even fit me and yeah so that part is also tough not knowing like what body shape I'm gonna have now I mean I have that mom Pat pooch and that is really just pissing me off can't wear body like tight dresses anymore

Oh my God I can so relate to that like when I just see these put together moms I'm like I don't get me wrong if I'm going to an event like you know somewhere I have to get dressed up like first of all stresses me out because I'm like all here we go what am I going to wear but yeah I am tired of it too like I wish they had a wardrobe or like a store just for moms like us that just need that extra somebody to help us with the style at this point

Yes, like I am a baggy shirt sweatpants mom. Like, and I've literally been feeling like I need to switch it up a little so, this is definitely something that is changing for me at the moment.