People I'm a self styled mentor of troubled people and gang related teens. I USE PHYSICALITY REGIMENTALITY REGULARITY SINCERITY. The concept here is that adults can come along and mentor and answer questions WHILE the young can come ask listen to older perspectives but can also give advice to peers and share experiences...they have to want it not because they in problems today and want instant answers or remedies no this is a process where they can get to come along and train workout learn self defence and gain a mentality of oneness with all around them that we are all somebody and have the right to our lives in peace if so chosen elders should be respected and those not involved should be allowed to there own path and not be intimidated by those who have chosen to throw away there lives FOR NOW..some are simply to scared timid washed to walk away they need a place to go.