Yeah, that's I mean what else could she think right like if he's like nah nah nah and I get it You know everything has its time or whatever But if he's comfortable to go to her crib and do all that And she can't even step foot in his like not even like you know I'm saying

It's not a two-way dating situation for her because she's doing all of the work and he's putting minimal effort in. I would definitely, at this point, if I were her in this dating situation, I would find it to be a red flag. Like, why aren't you letting me at your house? Like, I do respect people's boundaries, but some boundaries can be unhealthy. And this is something people need to recognize. Not every boundary that's set is a healthy one. Sometimes it's used to cover a lie.

So, if I were her at this point, I would just go my separate ways. I wouldn't brush over this red flag. You know, in my opinion, with this particular thing, there is no reasonable, healthy, logical explanation to why, you know, he, like, no. There's other people in the world that I can be entertaining versus this guy.