Imagine texting a girl for two months back and forth, everything's going good, text back and forth, and then after those two months, the big day comes when you ask her if you can go visit her, and she's like, yeah, you see, my mom doesn't allow boys at my house, but I can go to your place, and I'm like, eh, big red flag, retreat out of here, retreat, block your ways and on to the next one.