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We got like 15 seconds, let's go guys. What do you guys prefer? The digital way? You know, like these dating apps or like seeing somebody in person asking for their number, making conversation.
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I feel though, I like the old school when you actually used to go out and meet people in person Because there'd be a hell of a lot of catfishes on the internet like Somebody really can toy with your feelings and really play the shit out of you. I'm for the old school.
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Nah, that ass, they don't even gotta be catfish as far as their looks. It could be literally how they act. Like, okay, they was acting hella cool, you know, to pull you and whatever, and now y'all meeting in person. Where is that energy? Oh, hell nah. Like, pssst. Bye. Block. I'm not sure.
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I say the dating apps because it is way better than going up to someone and just talking to them because I really don't like talking to people. I get shy and scared.
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Hey, can I join you guys? I'd love to join your podcast. It's a smiley Smiley honey, I can't join you guys.
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Smiley, where have you been, dude? And Kiara, girl, mm-mm-mm. I be getting shy, too. I don't approach men. They approach me, you feel me? But I don't... it all starts from the digital, from me, and then in person.
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okay so I met my current person on Facebook dating but outside of him like it's mostly cringy it's mostly annoying catfishes weirdos and easily bl-
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You can easily block like anyone and just kind of go about your life However, when you're out and meeting somebody you kind of get to observe them in real time in real life They're mannerisms actions and all the rest of it.
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I suppose the difficulty, there's issues with both of them right because it just is but at least face to face you can read the person and get their vibe a little bit better whereas online you can say whatever the f***
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Plus I feel like, you know, the way that social media is going and everything's going at the moment, you know, we're losing the ability to just properly communicate in person. I prefer the old school way for sure for sure.
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So the chances of you bumping into somebody and they're actually ready to date is so like miniscule compared to just dating online. It's like you're not going to bump into somebody you're going to have stuff in common with unless you're tremendously...
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Unless you're tremendously lucky, because it's just not a common thing to happen. But yeah, just dating online is just easy. Just know how to weed out the genuine people and you'll be fine.
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Um, I agree and then I disagree because like sometimes nowadays There's people who can put on an act and be someone else and when you meet them in person is totally different You know, maybe six months in how you know from meeting up with them. It's like what?
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Okay see me I'm kind of awkward. How I met my spouse that I've been with for almost 12 years is over online. I do prefer in person but I really need to get to know you and sometimes it's better over...
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I know that's quirky and I know that's weird because old school is so much better. It's like oh my god I met you boo. What's up? We fine. I got butterflies like Mariah Carey, but uh Uh-huh something about me being able to take my time and think about what I'm saying
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Really think about what I'm saying cuz I'm so awkward and I put my foot in my mouth so much and sometimes I make split decisions I'm like now this ain't it or yet. This is it or no and I reflect back and I'm like nah I shouldn't did that maybe I should have oh my god. No
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So for me, for being an awkward person, very quirky and weird, I'd have to say computer is just best for me. But I do prefer meeting somebody, you know, in person, get that energy and that vibe, but it's better for me just because the awkwardness is better.
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I don't even know why I said awkwardicity. My bad y'all. My bad. Forgive me, it's the sickness making me be weird. Let me stop lying, I'm always weird. But yeah, online. Digital!
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Hey Slay, although I'm using digital dating, I feel like old-fashioned linkups is definitely the way. But you gotta be comfortable with approaching people in the street and you gotta be okay with rejection as well. But for me, yeah, that's definitely the way to go.
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Well, yeah, I give it to you guys, you know. I think that's really important is being able to accept rejection. And it's nothing wrong with that, it just means you love yourself enough.
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