As I was saying, do not become a social media prostitute. You should act like you have some public home training and public decency. Your husband is the only one who's supposed to see your beauty. What happened to our own self-dignity? This should not be approved by any parent. But it seems like when they come to America, they follow the stupid European ways.

And if not America, any white country that portrays the sexualization of the African black woman, it is quite sad to see that since slavery your ancestors and mothers were sold on auction blocks and now you promote and prance yourself around like you have no type of public awareness of your decency. You are a beautiful African woman but the fact that you feel that you need the validation of other people.

The fact that you feel that you need to have some form of validation from social media proves that you do not have very much of a high esteem. It is sad that a woman always have to display their sexuality rather than the brain that they have that's supposed to be braining. My sister, you need to actually be aware of your body and the men that love you. Like your father.

I feel sad for you my sister. Your father left you so now I see the fatherless activities being the result of your actions. I will not judge you but what I am telling you is warning because when men see you they only see you for the sexual activity. You can say that you are not interested in relationships and you can play the game but sometimes the game can play you. Do not be so prideful and narcissistic in your ways.

I am not religious but I do understand the moral code of the Bible. The Bible says that a modest woman is a gift from the Lord. The Bible says that a woman that has good morals is like a dove. There are many good things that comes from a woman who respect themselves with decency. I am sorry that you have missing father in your life. But if you need a boyfriend, I am here to help.