Hey guys dreamy hair is it normal to have personal time in a relationship if your partner says they need space it's easy to panic and think you've done something wrong but the truth is a little space is healthy in a relationship sometimes we start spending too much time together or we miss our friends or we just aren't feeling like ourselves and space can reset the balance spending time by yourself and focussing on different goals or hobbies is good and it is essential part of a relationship that helps ensure you retain your own individuality well also growing together as a couple So how to make time for yourself in a relationship set boundaries be consistent be clear about your needs set goals keep a calendar talk to your partner make any expectations clear and don't forget to be kind to yourself So now I have a question for you guys how do you feel about this topic is it normal to have a personal space and a relationship in my opinion I feel like it's excellent and essential to I definitely time to time need my alone time and definitely I feel great about having it as well

I don't feel like it's normal. I feel like it could be normal if people didn't take asking for space as like a sign that like they're doing something wrong then it would be normal. I don't know. It's just hard to set the boundaries without hurting someone's feelings or making them feel like oh shit you know what I mean? like you were saying.

Yeah I definitely think purple space is normal I think personal space is healthy to like obviously we all had personal space before our relationship so stuff when necessary

Yeah absolutely normal you don't need to be on top of each other 24 seven there's times are you know you want your space and the other person wants their space and I think in our space is good you know you're still in the same house but you guys can be in different room doing different things or you know just one person goes out with your friends you don't have to be a picture of that all day

Yes please I mean if you don't have personal time then how the hell are you gonna come to the table and enjoy meantime right there should be things to share with someone that doesn't fuck that person directly oh my God I've been in 70 suffocating dynamics that I am looking forward to maybe having one that grants me the freedom to be me grandson the freedom to be diamond that we can come in the middle after we've had a personal space

That's a good question, I mean, because you're going to lose yourself with somebody. Like, get used to being by yourself and all this stuff and you're getting a relationship and then you all are like together together all the time or the only space you get is when they go to work or you go to work. Good question. Yep, I didn't answer it. Hey Dreamy! Just call me!

Yeah it's totally normal because if you're out together all the time then that's you're gonna get bored of that relationship really quickly let me tell you

Yes single or not everybody needs some time with personal space and alone time

I think it should be if necessary if you are a person that needs that it's important that you made that clear before you you get all the way into the relationship and you get one a cuddly person and they ain't no per and you screw you black

Yeah spaces is a necessity a personal life of your own is necessity on and being conscious of that consistently is a necessity Younger younger self I would you know I want to latch on to my partner and do everything with them but luckily I've learned to Not value my time to occupy my time with things that I love so now I want to do those things

You should. You should be able to have a balance where you know for a fact that you have your own personal space. If you don't have that, there's a problem.