So last week me and my friend went to a restaurant and it was really nice seeing her because I haven't seen her in a long while and then I realize that she had kept texting on her cell phone and it was irritating me because I'm like who are you texting so she told me she was texting her boyfriend and she was getting angered because he wasn't replying fast enough to her message and I was trying to talk to her and tell her that it's OK maybe he's busy maybe he's working you know you never know what people can be doing in real life but she was getting upset and she was so bothered to the fact where she was like when I get home I'm not cooking no meals for him he's gonna have to cook for himself and she thought of it as a little punishment towards her boyfriend And I was kind of annoyed because I was just trying to have a conversation with her and she will not even give me five seconds of iContact so this is where it comes in the question that I want to ask do you get bothered when your partner doesn't reply fast enough to your messages for me and wouldn't bother me because you know I'll be busy throughout my whole day so I expect to know that my boyfriend is going to be busy to working school whatever he may be doing so what are you guys think about this question let me know in the comments

Not really unless it's like an outrageously slow reply. Like days.

Not at all no rush for that why would I be rushing for the text iMessage from ICE anxiety yeah waiting for a text but do you want me to bring for the week of the work

Now for me with this question, depending on what my husband is doing, it doesn't bother me, but like if it's been a while and I know like he might be out of town or something, and he doesn't text me back, then I might get nervous to like to be like, okay, what does he have his phone? He loses phone or so on because most of the time when I text him, he hits right back like all the time. And this has been like that for years. So if anything, if he doesn't reply back soon, then I would probably get worried like, well damn, did he lose his phone? Yeah.

For me it depends. Like if I need something right away, like and he doesn't respond, So I'm like, I'll call him, but if not, then no, I don't really stress about it.

No I don't get bothered I listen to time appropriately am I don't typically get bothered when they get back to me they get back to me especially one another at work overnight

So you tell me her boyfriend to be at work working his ass off to pay the bills and he can't and she's mad that he won't respond to him with an art respond to her within a few seconds like that's that's called entitlement the guy needs to break up with her immediately like I'm not even gonna bullshit you

This is funny. The conversation I was having with a friend, I'm not that person. I don't get annoyed. I like to live my life and I assume you're living yours and when we connect we connect

No I hate this my wife be on her phone but only on her phone I can see her on her phone and by the text messages they take forever to come back

You know it's funny I've dealt with this in every relationship I've been in and I don't know what it I know his insecurities so I know if I'm just bad at responding to messages but it doesn't bother me if my partner doesn't respond to a message fast or as soon as I send it I think it starts getting weird when it's like at least I texted him right now and I don't respond like six hours that's weird but I think they respond within the day honestly I think I'm good I'm not really sure