So I'm just trying to see something. Do you feel that you and your partner share kind of like equal responsibilities between like your housework or like bills or maybe taking care of the kids or Maybe not even necessarily equal, but do you think it's fair like the responsibilities are shared fairly For example like my boyfriend obviously goes to work and he works a ton and I'm a stay-at-home mom and we're so grateful that we're able to do that. But at the same time, he kind of just comes home and just, oh, he wants to relax right away. It's like, I don't get a chance to really relax until way after the kids are in bed. And I get up really early and even get up in the middle of the night, or you know what I mean? I feel like it's not all the time fair. And then if something needs to get done right away, I feel like I'm the type of person to just get it done, you know We're we were looking for a place so I initiated that like sense of okay Let's start looking into places for rent or maybe a house to buy and I started contacting people right away And I started sending emails out like I'm the person to just take initiative and And my boyfriend is just not like that. But anyway, what's it like in your relationship? Let me know.

I feel like although we may not have equal responsibilities I feel like they are more than fair so I currently am a stay at home dog mom so I take care of the five dogs and I do all like the cooking and cleaning laundry packing for vacations all of it but on the flipside like he goes to work and he pays for all the bills and he pays for the travel and he pays for everything for the dog so I feel like it's fair especially because I'm gonna start my doctor pose

Oh OK girl that's a good topic because I am a single mom and I feel like my main support is my brother my brother and I live together and we don't 100% sure of responsibilities because you know he's not fully the father but he does help me out a lot like for instance right now I'm actually getting some work done at a coffee shop and he is watching my son this is not his responsibility I don't want to ever but I do a lot at the house I cook I clean

Most of the bills I guess we will split most of the bills and I am the only one that drives well actually she does not put in any money for my car at all so sometimes he uses my car and you know he doesn't really pay me for gas so yeah I think so far we kind of do balance but I sometimes I do feel like I need more help from him when it comes to cleaning the house