Why do you look so bloated in that picture? Okay, anyways, um, I would rather have a significant other Why does it matter if if you if if you either have a partner that listens or a partner that makes you listen? Either way, it's a partner and you should be happy to have it. What the hell? Why are you looking at it like this? Either listen or don't don't be the relationship if you can't handle somebody who doesn't talk in listens I guess. Damn. You do not sound like a good person.