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Is punishment a necessary part of parenting?
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I would like to think so. I think the reason why it's necessary is because it doesn't mean you have to spank your kids. You definitely should punish them in a way that is something they'll learn from because you only had to do it once. I feel like a punishment is an punishment if you give it to them once and then they repeated knowing the consequence of the first action.
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Punishment is a necessary part of parenting but the way in which people punish is the west fucked up I don't think we need to spank the hell out your kids cause I know I got spanked the initiate this made me pissed off I want to give me any better but I think you got at least happy kids little bit I mean I'm gonna see and beat them she got Tappenden tablets but that's my theory of you got to punish but not abuse in as a good day
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This is a good question because there's a big difference between punishment and discipline discipline is to disable or teach your child punishment is more Painful if you could put it like that I've been learning so much through books with psychologist and psychiatrist and podcast with my own kids
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And I have been trying to unlearn that which was imposed on me because of the culture because of love so many things and I've learned that discipline is totally different it's a teaching thing like we got to take the opportunity to teach because when you're punished based on shame and sometimes fear and it's like well you don't want your kid
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You don't want your kids to be afraid of you rather be able to have that safe space to come to you and be like OK I know that I can come to my mom and dad or and be safe and know that they're going to support me because it all stems from there and then all of this affects them as adults
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Obviously your kid starts hitting you or other family members you just gonna be like oh cool do you know fuck no
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Yes, yes, you do need to be someone who's comfortable with punishing as a good parent, at least, but there are so many ways to punish and and then, before all punishment is not included in that.
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Yeah, based off the psychology that we know about parenting punishment, I believe is a necessity. The problem is not the punishment itself, it's what people use to enforce that punishment. So like, hitting your kids until they're broken is not a good punishment. way the things yeah that's better
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I do believe punishment is necessary in necessary situations. So I do want to inform or teach my child and children that there are consequences for your actions. If they are not good actions, they will not be good consequences. that ties into being punished for something that, again, in a necessary manner that was not favorable on their part.
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It's not necessary it's a must thanks
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