So am I kids dad and I were talking about this the other day and we kind of got into a little disagreement about it obviously our kids are super young so you won't have to worry about this until a very long time but it's also need to talk about and to think about him he was saying how he would not like our kids to but we agreed that we would not like them to like drink or do any kind of recreational stuff without us knowing about it obviously but he was saying how he would rather them do it in the house then do it outside which I mean I get obvious I wouldn't like them to do it at all Not that I completely disagree with like drinking and stuff because we all know it's gonna happen and I did it when I was younger obviously I didn't really I wasn't really into that scene of like just like drinking and partying like that really when I was young but I didn't do it you know when I was under age so what do you guys think what did you what would you do with your kids how do you go about this topic I don't even know what to think about it honestly I don't really have an opinion so far because I think they're just so young and so like I don't really even wanna think about it because even thinking about it stresses me out because I just don't wanna have to deal with that but I know it's going to come eventually I am as it does with all of us so what would you do let me know your thoughts

It was always about creating a safe and firemen for my kids when the opportunity presents after them in the real world always told him bring it today and I'm saying you want to drink you wanna see me that's like come today and we

See you thing is though is that I would much rather much much rather have my kids never drink and smoke but if it ends up happening and I know for a fact that they're drinking and smoking I would rather have them do it at my house than somewhere else safe so I believe they should be able to

So my boyfriend used to smoke weed a lot and I used to drink liquor a lot and we're now both sober and have a four month old. So personally I...

Knowing when I do my kids and they're going to do it they call us do you say that I cannot I rather them do it at my house so I can see what is going on then I'm hiding it from me and doing it so I'm out and something happening

Yeah, it's just a hard one in general, but like my parents let me drink under supervision at their house and it definitely prevented me from doing like crazy, crazy things. But yeah, I'm on a long road before I have to figure this out.

I personally would not tolerate that, do that outside of my house. Like, no, I raised you better to do that and honestly, it's kind of disrespectful. I'm an Asian mom and that's not gonna work on me.

But I don't know if I would be OK with letting my son do drugs and drink with me and you know I feel like that doesn't set a good example for them you know and I mean I'm not much of a drinker

I mean I let my four year-old hit the blunt sometimes so I think it's OK

If I had kids I would never allow them to do that it's just so unnecessary