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All right so now that I gave my thoughts on the matter right hand now it's your turn should we as a community gift of love in order to be better let me hear you
Yeah, kind of like, oh, it's not just, oh, they need to be disciplined. Right. This person needs is actually caring about my wellbeing type of situation.
because people have to realize that they did mess up about you. Sometimes you need to look at the deeper meaning of what's going on. So So yes, I do believe in tough love. I've been able to.
The people that I have given tough love to, they actually learned their lessons. So yes, I am a proponent of giving tough love because sometimes people would try to make it seem like they're the victim when really they are not. It's not all about you, the world does not
Nah, that makes perfect sense. Like, if we have that kind of relationship, I'll know that your intentions are good, but like, it's still a way to say everything. Like, you can say things with love.
Absolutely, I agree with that. You don't necessarily have to be harsh with what you're saying, but at the same token, you have to let them know the real, raw, and authentic truth, whether it's going to hurt them or not.
Like, if I have a friend that's going through a tough time or going through depression, I'm not gonna be like, yo, you're being mad lazy, like, get up. I'm gonna try and find a different approach, like...
I might cry with you but I might be like no let's take a walk let's do something let's get fresh air let's let's go get some food let's go to the gym like we can't be stuck in a rut together you know