i'm not trying to be like a pygmy or whatever but like just how there's been male rapists and male serial killers there's also been female rapists and serial killers. like if you're afraid of a man and what they'll do also be free of a woman because they've done the exact same thing. like if you can't just be scared of one gender,Right, there's no way like be scared of everyone and everything at that point, you know?